How to deal with jealousy of children

Raising children

Children are the pleasures of the livers, and they are a trust in the necks of the fathers, where they have to be brought up in the best way, and their creation on good morals.

Define jealousy in children

 It is an emotional psychological state that the child feels and hides as much as possible; so that he is always the best, and jealousy can also be defined as a mixture that combines the child’s emotion, nervousness, stubbornness and anger, and with all this we cannot consider it a hopeless case, but rather a hopeless case, on the other hand, a contemptible state, but rather a hopeless case; The natural feelings that can be found in every human being.

 During parenting of their children, they must take into account the behavior of jealousy, know the exact and detailed factors and causes that led to it, and try to treat them with irritation and calm nerves, to reach the desired goal which is to reduce them to the point of removing the negatives from the child’s life, because if the child’s illness is considered to be more than normal The growth of his social life, and also affects his personality and becomes weak.

 Causes of jealousy in children

• One of the main reasons for the problem of jealousy in children and their inflation is comparing it with other peers and differentiating between them whether it is a brother, a relative or a companion.
•  The weak personality and lack of self-confidence in the child and all frustration develop his jealousy.
•  The physical or mental defects that a child may have make him feel inferior to his parents.
• Not allowing the child to express whatever feelings he or she feels, whether they are feelings of love, jealousy or anger, as this develops a feeling of weakness and lack of self-confidence.
•  Following the method of beating the child, when he expresses his zeal to his brother, gives him a feeling of hatred and enmity.
•  Not praising the child when he behaves well in dealing with others, especially with another child like him.

Methods of expressing the child

• His constant change of screaming, anger, and inconvenience, and assaulting him for no reason.
• After the age of ten he falls among his peers, and hatred is sown in their hearts.
• Follow stubborn behavior in all matters, even in food and drink.

 Treating jealousy in children

 Among the correct means of raising children that parents must follow and work with in their daily lives as much as possible without being tired or bored:

•  The constant praise of the child, his sense of its value, and the enhancement of his self-confidence in all places where he is, whether in the family, at school or in front of his colleagues.
•  Raising the child from a young age to love cooperation, giving and generosity, and not to violate the rights of others, whatever his need.
• Achieving equality and justice between the child and his peers, not distinguishing between them and not praising one of them.
• In the event of the birth of a new child, parents must pay more attention to the older child, praise him, his sense of existence and importance, and follow methods that mitigate jealousy or limit its presence, such as: bringing a toy and handing it over to the child as being from his new brother.
•  Accustoming the child to continuous work to achieve success in his life, and if he passes through the stage of failure he must accept that, and work more to overcome it with more diligence and diligence.
•  Trying to overcome the childish feeling of selfishness and remove it completely, because it leads to negativity in dealing with others.
•  If the child has a deficiency, whether physically or otherwise, attention must be intensified and notified that he is always the best.
• Containing the child with love and tenderness continuously.