Planting God’s watch in the hearts of children
The first building block for raising children is the implantation of God Almighty’s observation in their souls, and teaching them that God always monitors them in secret and in public, and this matter will lead to the integrity of the children's behavior. It is built that the weight of a grain of mustard must be in a rock, in the heavens, or in the earth, with God, but God belongs to God.
Benefit Education
Children need education on different knowledge, and seize opportunities for that. For example: Parents should strive to take leave, put their children in Sharia courses, or scientific courses in the computer field for example, or strengthen children in general information, so space is one of the factors that It leads to moral, behavioral, and intellectual deviation, so the void must be employed in matters that are good for children.
Good treatment
Children should be treated kindly, and soft, as children love the companion father, and the kind-hearted who cares for them, so there is no reason to shout, and anger at the children, but wisdom and patience should be pursued over them, where the Holy Prophet says: (God loves compassion in the whole matter) (3) ] [4], and parents should approach their children, talk to them, talk to them, help them solve their problems, offer advice, and guide them in a soft way, and with great wisdom, and sympathy must be shown to them, as the gap between parents and their children leads to poor education, and lost children .
Choose the company of the children
Parents must choose the good and good companionship for their children, as the sitting is the reason that leads to goodness or corruption, and the importance of the good companion stems from the fact that he guides his friend to goodness, reminds him when he forgets, shows friendliness in his presence, and saves his friend if he is absent, but a bad companion to On the contrary, where he runs panting behind his whims and pleasures, and therefore it is necessary to sit with the good guys, and stay away from accompanying the bad guys, where the poet says:
Do not accompany a brother of ignorance and you and him, how many of the ignorant I want a sane when his brother
A person is measured if one is his brother
Keep distractions and deviations from the children
Prohibited civilizational distractions and space stations are among the things that lead to the deviation of ideas, the corruption of beliefs, and the poisoning of minds, but the intelligent father is the one who prevents the existence of these matters in his home, and among his children, and the mobile is considered one of the things that cause tampering and wasting money, and therefore must be Take great care of the risks that waste their children's lives, and keep them away from them.
Good example
Parents are regarded as role models for their children in every matter. Therefore, they must ensure that they have good morals, and that they want to raise their children on them. For example: It is not acceptable for children to raise children to smoke the father, and in return forbade his son from doing so, where one of the predecessors says For his children’s teacher: (Your reform of my children is related to reforming yourself, and their faults are dependent on your faults, as they have good things that you did, and ugly in their perspective they did not leave).
Children’s Education Trust
Children are considered a trust in the necks of their families, so parents must be charitable in raising them, and among the most important things that must be taught to children are the following:
- Educating children on all that is good.
- Accustom them to continue to pray, and to preserve mosques.
- Raising them on the morals, which are represented in the following: righteousness and the womb link.
- Good speech, and peace.
- Good treatment with all people.
- Love honesty, and hate lying in them.
